LONELINESS
A man is known by the company he keeps they say. If it is so,then everyone is bound to have their baggage of loneliness with them as companions.loneliness is not something that doesnt exist at all with any human being on earth.Every human being feels lonely in his life at some point or other. Its but natural to have such feeling ,because thats what makes us all human and that is why we are as we are now.
他们说人一直为他身边的人所知的.若是如此的话,每一个人都注定与孤独为伍.孤独感是每一个人都会有些,都会在某个时候,感到孤独,这是很自然的.由于孤独感令大家成人,并令大家成为目前的大家.
If we shed some light on why we feel aloof or lonely at times, we would be very much astonished or even probably surprised by the results. We ourselves are responsible for our selfdefined gloominess. This is because at times we really feel that we are uncared for or feel someone doesnt understand us.
假如大家再三考虑为何大家有些时候会感觉高处不胜寒或孤独时,大家会对剖析的结果感到很吃惊.大家自己应该对大家自己所概念的忧郁付责任.由于有些时候,大家真的感觉大家被忽略或者不被理解.
Sometimes we over analyze real life situations and have this growing sense of self pity inside us. This feeling always gives us thoughts which picturise us always receiving the wrong end of the stick in life.The truth might not always be true if we touch our heart and see. Its just that our expectations in life and from people around us or circumstances that we are facing,have got the better of us. Expectation is the silent killer which murders millions of mushy and time tested relationships. If there would have been no expectations from anyone, the world would have been a much better place to be. If there would have been no expectationds,not many people would have had an aching heart and a life long grouse against there would have been better haves.If it wouldnt have been for unreasonable expectations not many couples would have divorced each other.
有些时候大家过度的剖析了真实的状况,这令大家自己产生了自己怜悯我们的感觉.这种感觉常常会给大家错觉,假如大家扪心自问,真相并不一直真的,它们只不过大家对身边人和环境过高的期待.期待是一个沉默的杀手,谋杀了无数经过时间考验的人也人之间的关系.假如没了对其他人的期待,那样这个世界将会并得更好.假如没期待,就不会有那样多人感到心疼,而对于有的人,一生的埋怨也就不会那样长了.假如没那些不切实质的期待,也就不会有那样多夫妻离婚了.
How to come out of expectations them? Good question. The answer is when you give something, dont expect anything in return. When our mother gave birth to us, she never expected that we will give birth to her.She has just fulfilled her desire to raise a family and live for them. In the same way, let our actions make us live for our self and let not expectation screw up the major portion of your lives. Let us have the freedom and will power to express our love, affection and longingness for people whenever we feel. Let us not restrict our freedom of expression just because he or she is not responding the way we want them to.
